Values

I think as a parent, I need to instill values in my children. Whenever I tell Abby that she didn't behave, she'll say...Mama loves Abby when Abby is behaving and mama loves Abby when Abby is not behaving.

She knows that our love is not based on her performance. (She does know that mama doesn't like it when she doesn't behave though)

Abby also knows she goes to church to worship God. And after worshiping God, she can see aunties and uncles. She knows she dress well for God and for herself...not for other people to see.

She knows God lives in her heart and will protect her. She can worship God by singing and praying.